tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12020152.post115466238297644827..comments2023-03-25T03:00:18.890-07:00Comments on shorty and her angst: further and furtherNo Stand In Will Dohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04136522168293167787noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12020152.post-1155310393682441772006-08-11T08:33:00.000-07:002006-08-11T08:33:00.000-07:00There really is no shortcut that I've ever heard o...There really is no shortcut that I've ever heard of, you just have to trudge on through it. I'm still trudging, three years (I think?) later. Early on it was helpful for me to think, after another day of sadness and lonliness had ended, that at least I was done with one more day of being sad: I had taken one more tiny step forward in the healing process. Because sometimes your brain and heart need to wallow for a long time, and eventually you will work through what you need to work through. You can't rush it. So be kind to yourself.<BR/><BR/>There's my unsolicited break-up advice for you.deblhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17901279767555021096noreply@blogger.com